Cialis

chloe asked:

I have been having problems with my husband, and he refuses to talk about his feelings or thoughts surrounding the problem, claiming that he doesnt have feelings or thoughts about it. I have posted before about the situation, but not really in this context.

He is having ed issues. All the sudden, we stopped having sex. After several fights and him denying that anything is wrong, he finally tells me he is having a hard time getting an erection and cant orgasm at all.

After several more fights of his refusal to do anything about it (refused any kind of sexual contact, refused using our drawer full of toys, refused going to the doctor) I finally made a doc appt for him.

He was diagnosed with low testosterone. He has been getting testosterone shots now for about 6 months.

But he is still refusing to do anything else. The doc gave him a few samples of cialis to try – but he refuses claiming he knows they wont work because he cant get an erection without them, and says they wont work unless you can get an erection without them.

He still refuses any kind of sexual contact – I cant even get a kiss that is more than peck.

I have a high sex drive but have been celibate now for over two years. I need to have some sort of a sexually intimate relationship with my husband.

I have explained to him that I understand the ed is a medical problem, not an issue of him loving me or finding me attractive. I have explained to him that there are many things we can do that do not require him to have a hard penis but still gives our relationship sexual intamcy, but he refuses to try. I have explained to him that it clearly does not make me less attracted to him, and that I dont think it makes him any less of a man or whatever.

He says he still wants sexual intamcy, but I am left confused by his refusal to try anything, and his refusal to tell me why or open up about his feelings surrounding the problem.

WHAT is going on in his head??????????
He swears that he is not cheating, and I have no evidence to suggest that he is.

He swears that there is not anything about me that is causing the problem and that he still finds me very attractive.

I just dont know what else to do.

So if someone can give me some clue about his point of view, it would be great
First answer… having a baby is irrelevant. I am infertile. Having sex will never result in a pregnancy for us.